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Ahhhhh . . . Life

Yes.....ahhhh, life. One of my dad's favorite sayings was, "Life is great, if you don't weaken."  Where do I begin to tell you about my past week.....

 

You'll recall that the last time I did a blog entry I'd mentioned that Ray was sick.  Well, he's really no better.  We saw the dr. we'd been seeing a week ago Thursday......he wasn't sure what it was, maybe a flu, and put Ray on Cipro.  They also did blood work.  I called them on Monday.  Yup, blood work was back and "it's okay" says the nurse.  Okay, define "okay" for me I told her.  Is it all within normal limits?  Well, no his white count is high, Bilirubin is a little high.  Oh and so is his BUN.  Hmmm.  Okay.  What are we going to do about it, I asked, because he's really no better.  The GI symptoms had diminished, but he was feeling exhausted.  No energy whatsoever and just "not feeling good."  The nurse said to me, "What would you like us to do?"  Well, gee......maybe a chest x-ray to rule out pneumonia?  They don't do those at that dr. office and she told me to go to the ER.  For a chest x-ray?  I thought we were trying to keep this sort of thing OUT of the ER's and only dealing with emergencies there.  I didn't like her idea at all and hung up.

 

Moving the story along here, on Tuesday I took Ray to the Immediate Care Center in Gainesville because I was told he could get a chest x-ray done there.  AFTER I did all the paper for insurance, etc. we're called into a room and told, "He has a history of COPD.  We can't do a chest x-ray on him here.  It might be cardiac related."  I assured her he wasn't in any acute cardiac or respiratory distress.  But nope.....sorry.....go to the ER is what she instructed us.  Back in the car, drive down the street to No. Florida Regional Medical Center ER.  Well.......after sitting there for almost 2 hours among at least 20 other people.......we walked out.  So we spent 5 hours in Gainesville last Tues. and got absolutely nowhere.

 

At this point, I'm really lovin' the medical system even less than I normally do.  Came home and called Chiefland Medical Center.  The back story here is.......this is where we always went since we moved to Cedar Key 3 yr. ago.  I was very pleased with the care there and they EVEN do chest x-ray's there.  However, about a year ago the dr. we had finished his rotation there and moved on.  We were told we'd have to see the Nurse Practitioner until that Aug. when another dr. would be on board.  I didn't like that idea.  That's when we switched to UF Shands Clinic in Old Town. (where we were a week ago Thurs.)  Still with me here?

 

Took a chance and called Chiefland, they still had Ray's records in the computer and told us to come in the very next day, last Wednesday, at 1:00 and we could see Miss Martha, the Nurse Practitioner.  (For those of you not from the south, calling her Miss Martha is a southern thing.  Sweet and respectful)  We went.......and I have to say I was VERY impressed with Miss Martha.  Knowledgeable, intelligent and extremely professional.  At that point she wasn't sure what was going on, but Ray's lungs were clear.  We did a chest x-ray anyway and no pneumonia.  They did a lot of blood work and here's where things get tricky......

 

Miss Martha called on Friday afternoon......Ray's liver enzymes are very elevated.  First question of course, does he drink?  Those of you that know Ray know the answer to that.  He's lucky if he has one beer or one gin and tonic once a month.  That's it.  Never was a drinker.  So that shoots that out as the reason.  Without going even into more detail......Ray did have some clams to eat 2 weeks ago last night.  So my first thought when ALL of this started that Mon. evening (48 hr. after eating the clams) was possibly Hepatitis A.  Miss Martha is also thinking possibly the same thing.  Now, his Hep A test came back negative.  However, many times it doesn't show up in the blood until 15 to 50 days later! 

 

Sooo......we're going this Tues. to Gainesville for an abdominal ultrasound and we'll see her again on Wed. for more blood work.  Here we are 2 weeks later since he got sick and we'll still no closer to knowing what's wrong. 

 

Although Ray is feeling better as far as GI symptoms, he still has no energy at all and is extremely tired.  Based on this.........I've had to cancel our trip to Paris.  We were due to leave a week from this Wed. on April 29.  I just cannot see him bouncing back that fast to endure the flight over, the drive to Normandy and Brittany and then on to Paris for a week.  Yes, I'm very disappointed and so is he.  But we need to find out what's going on with his health.  And as I told him, based on what the tests show we'll just reschedule the entire trip for September.  We love going to France in the fall.  So yesterday morning I canceled my house/pet sitter, the hotels, the apartment in Paris.  And this is where we're at.

 

Yup, my dad was very right.  Life is great.......if you don't weaken.  See you here next time........

 

 

Posted on Sunday, April 20, 2008 at 7:00AM by Registered CommenterTerri DuLong in | Comments11 Comments

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Sounds like you guys have been through the ringer.. I was liking Hep A myself. I hope you get it figured out though and I'll be keeping my fingers crossed for an answer up here!!
April 20, 2008 | Unregistered Commentergoofy girl
Hope all tests come back not serious and the mystery ailment is solved. Feel Better Ray, Terri take care of you also!
April 20, 2008 | Unregistered CommenterJoyce
As always, anything you need - dogsitting or whatever, just call us. So sorry to hear about having to cancel your trip, but you did the right thing. Air travel is risky to begin with due to the recirculating air and all the nasties in it. No sense in putting Ray's health at risk for a vacation. Paris will still be there and is beautiful in September also!! We wish Ray a very speedy recovery.
April 20, 2008 | Unregistered Commenterfaraway
We have the most screwed up medical system in the world, Terri. I swear it's all about the Doc's making money and not doing one whit more than they have to. I, too, think that the nurse practicioners do just as good a job as the Docs. I hope you get some answers soon and that Ray can get some relief.
April 20, 2008 | Unregistered Commenterginnie
Wow! I've been wondering about you. We just got back from Marblehead and my first two booktalks, and in Marblehead I was thinking about you and your fictional characters a lot as we walked the wonderful narrow streets. I sensed that this thing with Ray was serious, and I'm glad to hear, on coming home, that he's feeling better. It's a shame you had to cancel the trip, but flying seems crazy even for healthy people right now (we're flying down to North Carolina next weekend and I wonder if our flight will still be intact, they're cancelling so many). A Fall trip to Paris sounds good. Your dad's words are so true.
April 20, 2008 | Unregistered CommenterML
Terri - well, I will miss seeing you all in Paris but you are wise to have canceled. The important thing is to get Ray feeling better and to find out what is behind it all. HUGS!!
April 21, 2008 | Unregistered Commenterpat
Well, my dear...You and Ray have had quite a week....I Hope & Pray they can pin down what is going on with your dear Ray, tomorrow....
It is stramge, when you said he had eaten clams--I immediately thought Hep A....So very many many years ago, when we were all doing Spoon River on Broadway and Larry Parks was in a play too---We ALL Ate at a Fish Restaurant on 8th ave. Between Matinee and Evening, one night....Joyce V.P got food poisening that very evening and Larry got Hep A....! So much for Seafood!
I know you both must be so very disappointed in having to cancel your trip, my dear, but you are so right to both want to take care of Ray's Health situation, first!

Our Health Care System is just atrocious now, in every way, isn't it. It is really scary. And YOU know better than most people Terri, having been a Nurse...! Prayers are forthcoming about that, too...But I fear it is going to take a lot more than Prayers!
April 21, 2008 | Unregistered CommenterOldOldLady Of The Hills
Sorry to hear that your trip to France is off for the present. Still Ray will enjoy it much more when he is feeling better.

I've always imagined that healthcare in the USA was so much better than our National Health Service here in the UK. Now I'm not so sure.
April 22, 2008 | Unregistered CommenterJohn
Just checking to see how everything went today with the Ultrasound! Hope all went well Terri....Just wanted you to know I am thinking of you and Ray and wishing you the very best! I know there will be some more tests on Wednesday....Hope that goes well, too!
April 23, 2008 | Unregistered CommenterOldOldLady Of The Hills
Just got back from Florida yesterday and thought I'd go visit my friend Terri and see what she's been up to.

Sorry to hear about Ray not feeling well and the Paris trip cancelled. Oh my, that's to bad but Paris in September is good to.

I remember when you were in Paris Ray spent some time in the hospital. Did he have clams?

Hope the docs find out soon what the problem is.

Feel better, Ray!
April 23, 2008 | Unregistered Commentermillie garfield
Yeah, life is what happens when we've made other plans. But having to cancel Paris was a shocker to read.

They took four vials of blood from me a couple weeks ago to "check everything." Just got into the doctor's last Thursday to be told that this is high, this is low--so now it's more meds or higher dosage what what I am taking. And I'm not even 55 yet.
April 27, 2008 | Unregistered CommenterBig_Dave_T
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