Celebrity Role Models
If you've been following the weather, then you know we've had our share of cold....and yes, I mean COLD....weather this past week here in Florida. Cedar Key had the coldest temps in four or five years one morning when it dropped to the 20's. Most days it didn't climb out of the 40's. And that's mighty cold for us Floridians. Factor in the 25/35 mph winds......and I ended up with a vicious sinus headache yesterday morning. So as I sat there hoping the Sudafed would work, with a heat pack on my neck to relieve the pressure, I was watching CNN. All of the coverage was about Brittany Spears latest escapade.
Sorry, but I don't have an ounce of sympathy for this girl. She surrounds herself with losers, refuses to listen to anybody with intelligence and continues to self-destruct. She's a sorry excuse as a mother and I could go on and on. But after they finished yakking about her, it was on to Lindsay Lohan......another one that's been in and out of rehab all to no avail. She was photographed drinking from a champagne bottle New Years Eve. Nice. Very nice. And Paris Hilton? Just another one that I'm sure will make the headlines in a negative way before this year reaches an end. They're train wrecks......all of them are total train wrecks. Personally, I could care how they live their life or the destruction they cause to themself. But what does really tick me off is they're "supposed" to be role models for our young girls.
So as I sat there listening to their latest ordeals, I got to thinking. I got to thinking back to when I was ten to fifteen years of age as to who my celebrity role models were. And lemme tell ya.....it's like we're now living on a different planet.
I adored Annette from the Mickey Mouse Club. And Sandra Dee staring in films with Troy Donahue. I wanted the panache that Audrey Hepburn possessed. And I longed to be as chic and classy as Jacquie Kennedy. How I wished I had the sultry, sensuous, looks of Natalie Wood or the singing voice of Connie Frances. And I always, always, wanted to dance as well as all those girls on American Bandstand. Those were healthy and good role models. Perky, wholesome teens with swingy-ponytails and bright eyes. Sophisticated women that had style and beauty and compassion.
What on earth has happened? Now we have young moms having their children taken away from them due to drugs and drinking. Stars of TV programs, that all the young girls watch, getting pregnant at 16 and saying "I don't know how this happened." Celebrities being photographed without underpants on, leaving clubs drunk and laughing about it, going to rehab centers like they're spending time at country clubs.
So who do we blame? Who's feeding this insane frenzy? The parents? The media? The judges that are too lenient with these celebrities? And where does it all end?
I feel it's a combination of all of the above. The parents of the celebrities, the parents that allow their own children to buy into this circus......purchasing the CD's, watching the tv programs, dressing like 18 when they're only 10. The media for being the fools they are, chasing these celebrities around for the first scoop. And yes, the judges for not being tough enough with sentencing. I also feel very bad for young girls today.......with the trash that's "out" there, who on earth could they look up to as celebrity role models?










Reader Comments (10)
I'm glad you fingered the media among those fanning the flames of our notorious youth. I do blame them. I never heard of Jamie Spears until the media doused her with a shower of publicity over her pregnancy. Watch, now the paparazzi will follow her every move. You can't buy that kind of publicity in Hollywood. And it makes me ill.
I don't know if we are better off knowing the truth about who the celebs are or whether it was better when it was hidden, but I agree with you that it sure is icky to have to hear about it on all of our supposedly serious news programs. If young people (the guys aren't much better in that young bunch) admire them, that's a very discouraging thing for our future. One could hope they might see what train wrecks these young people are, but who knows...
I hate what has happened to our so called "NEWS"....it is ALL Tabloid/gossip driven now...cause thats what sells soap, as they say....A sorry sorry situation!
As far as Britney, she needs professional psychiatric help before a disaster happens. Her children need a mentally healthy mom.